On Monday the 24th, we headed to the Pakse airport as a group.  We 
paid our hefty excess baggage fees, and boarded the tiny plane packed 
with plastic bags and fidgety passengers.  Upon our arrival in 
Vientiane, we stored our myriad bags and took advantage of Lao 
Aviation's policy of not checking you through on multi-leg journeys to 
head into Vientiane Center.  Now, it may seem silly, but we found an 
Italian restaurant...we should have eaten at someplace Lao, but after 3 
weeks of rural Laotian food, we were all craving dairy and pasta and 
real salad.  So we opted instead to be really touristy.
Afterwards, Kecia and I walked the few blocks to Wat Sisaket, a 
beautiful temple built out of wood in the 18th century.  Looking at it, 
you'd never believe the temple is that young - it is incredibly striking
 and looks very old.  You could see, too, the shift as we went farther 
north - the wat became more Chinese, more Mongolian.  We returned to the airport soon after, and then continued 
on to Bangkok.
The next morning, I headed out to the airport, and 
caught my flight to Hanoi.  Upon landing in Hanoi, the sky was grey, and
 the ground green - I was moving away from the equator.  Noibai is quite
 a ways from Hanoi, so the ride took a while.  By the time I got to my 
hotel, it was already 2p, and I called one of our participants, Cuong, 
to let him know I had arrived.  At the workshop, when I told the 
Vietnamese that I was coming to Hanoi, they immediately started planning
 my visit.  Cuong, whose English was strongest, was nominated to be the 
tour guide.  So, sure enough, he showed up at my hotel on his moped and 
we departed in a taxi (it's a status thing) to visit the Ho Chi Minh 
Mausoleum.  Yeah, commie dictators like to be embalmed, so one can 
actually visit Bac Ho (Uncle Ho) in the flesh.  I tried to deter Cuong, 
but to no avail.  Luckily, when we arrived, the mausoleum was closed for
 the afternoon for some random Vietnamese bureaucratic reason, so I was 
spared the viewing.  However, Cuong informed me that I must come back to
 Vietnam to see Uncle Ho, and perhaps worrying that I did not have a 
great enough appreciation for Uncle Ho, promptly ordered us a tour guide
 for the Presidential Palace.  It was odd to listen to the tour guide's 
canned speech about how humble Uncle Ho was, how he loved children (but 
was never blessed with his own), listening to the radio, and tuberoses 
with such reverence.  At one point, the tour guide said something about 
Uncle Ho and the enemy and then corrected his speech, apologizing if he 
had offended me as an American.  
After the failed mausoleum visit (thankfully), Cuong took me to the
 Temple of Literature, which turned out to be one of my favorite places 
in the entire world.  And yes, I realize how nerdy that is.  The Temple 
of Literature is a Chinese-style series of pagodas, and was built 
centuries ago by Vietnamese kings to honor learning and wisdom (what a 
novel concept for a culture to appreciate!).  In the 1400s, one of the 
kings decided that the names of talented and wise men should live on, so
 he inscribed the names of those who earned PhDs on stone stelae, 
carried on the backs of tortoises, which are symbols of longevity in 
Vietnam.  Some 1300 men passed the exams, and are immortalized in stone 
in the temple.  The Temple of Literature is also the site of the first 
university in Hanoi, although it was later moved.  Students come to the 
temple to pray for good luck on tests, and new grads swarm the 
courtyards after graduation ceremonies, coming to be photographed and 
thank Buddha for success.  It is also a beautiful place, and quiet - 
Hanoi's streets are filled with mopeds that honk continuously, so any 
peace is appreciated.
Cuong also provided some interesting tidbits on Vietnam during our 
day's stroll.  I noted that all the moped drivers were wearing helmets 
(not so in Laos) and he informed me that a law enforcing helmet use was 
enacted this past December.  And the people are obedient.  Even when it 
comes to regulating the number of children each family has - by law, 
families are allowed only two children.  According to Cuong, if you have
 more children than 2, it will be very difficult for you in your 
career.  He added that rural families often had more, but for those who 
worked in the city in this communist country, you can really only have 2
 or you'll never be promoted - you'll be a "bad" party member in a 
country where your status with the party determines your future.
The Old Quarter of Hanoi is really picturesque and bustling, with 
"tube houses."  There used to be a law calculating property tax by the 
width of your storefront - so storeowners would make their storefronts 2
 ft wide - and then the store would continue far into the back of the 
building.  So, there are many many houses that are short in width but 
very deep, a vestige of this colonial law.
I was enjoying Hanoi, and delighted in the delicious and authentic 
Vietnamese food at dinner with Cuong and Phu Lam, but Wednesday 
morning's bus ride to Halong Bay was calling.  I had been harboring 
dreams of Halong for months now, and my bus was leaving early.  I bid my
 friends goodnight, and returned to my hotel to again stuff souvenirs 
into any perceived cranny in my bulging luggage.  
I met up with the tour company, Handspan, the next morning, and 
waited eagerly in the Tamarind Cafe to depart (btw, if you ever make it 
to Hanoi, the Tamarind Cafe is amazingly good.  Do it!)  We boarded our 
little bus, my junkmates and I, and hit the highway (term loosely 
applied) to Haiphong and Halong City.  Having finished the books I 
brought from the US (list below), I jumped into the pirated copy of Sex 
Slaves by Louise Brown that I bought in Hanoi off a street vendor for 
$2.  It is a disturbing but informational book about the trafficking of 
women in Asia - one that shifts your understanding of the situation 
dramatically, and I grew absorbed (absorbed can be translated here as 
angry/frustrated/livid/ enraged) very quickly and lost track of 
time.  Before I knew it, we had travelled the four hours' distance and 
we unloaded at the Halong Bay dock, which was frothy with tourists.  
We 
pushed through the different groups to descend into a small motorboat, 
which took our group out to the junk.  It was lovely, the tiny cabin and
 tiny bathroom and all in wood with carved dragons, and peaceful - no 
moped horns.  It was cool, and for the first time in a month, I found 
myself hunting for that one sweater I had brought.  Sitting on the top 
deck, my fellow passengers and I stared at the karsts as we sailed out -
 it is by far one of the most exquisite and beautiful places on the 
planet.  There are no words.  There were 11 of us on the boat: 5 in an 
Australian family that kept to themselves, and then a couple from 
Singapore, and a Swiss couple, and then an Englishman, and me.  Our junk
 was pretty relaxed - they were a nice group of people, particularly 
Tristan, the Englishman, and Christian and Alex, the Swiss couple.  We 
stayed up late drinking bad Vietnamese wine and discussing American 
politics in French - a lot of "merde" and "je comprends pas. je 
comprends absoluement pas."  It is reassuring to meet people like you 
when you travel - but then again, it's people with my interests who 
would show up on a boat in Vietnam that I found as well, so it's perhaps
 not surprising, but it was reassuring and comforting to meet people I 
will in all likelihood never see again but to share an evening of 
laughter, wine, frustration, and ultimately, understanding and 
connection.  
After a month of being misunderstood in Laos and struggling
 to communicate, it was refreshing, although the feeling wasn't to last 
long.  When I asked our tour guide Son how the karsts were formed, I expected some kind of scientific answer, like ...oh say rain 
and erosion combined with humidity.  Son told me that an ancient king 
was fighting a dragon and as he defeated the 
dragon, the dragon fell down out of the mountains in northern Vietnam 
and as he hurtled towards the sea, he swung his tail about in flailing 
arcs.  The earth he dislodged stayed put.  And so, the dragon's tail 
formed the 4000 majestic islands that are Halong Bay.
Upon my return from my two days in Halong, I spent my final night 
in Hanoi and Asia before my long flights back to Los Angeles.  Cuong 
took me to the water puppet show, which was incredible, but a bit 
touristy.  It was an amazing experience though - actors hold water 
puppets on long sticks behind a curtain, and then the puppets come out 
up through a little lake and "perform" in front of the curtain.  The 
show included really lifelike fish frolicking, and princesses dancing in
 unison, and a dragon with fireworks in his mouth.  It was incredible.  I
 was delighted, but tried not to chortle like a child like I wanted to 
for Cuong's sake!
It was good to come back to LA - I love it here.  As I reflect back on what my trip meant to me, how I 
grew from it, how I will carry it with me...I cannot help but feel my 
heart ache for the dusty jungle roads, and I yearn for the simplicity of
 my rural Laotian life.  LA is amazing, it is so beautiful - the sky is 
so wide and stretches on to forever, so freeing in its vast expanse of 
perfect blue, and the hills in their wealth and clarity on the 
horizon...but it was also beautiful to be away from everything, to be 
anonymous and mysterious for once, to have a simple life uncomplicated 
by gyms and iPods and timesheets and commutes.  In my mind's eye, when I
 am boiling over with stress, I imagine the hard red dirt of Laos under 
my sandals, and the scent of mangos and the broad swath of the Mekong 
slowly moving towards the south, to the sea, as we are all called - or 
the dreamlike karsts of Halong covered in their lush and emerald 
foliage, dropping steeply into the pure turquoise-green waters.  
Tennyson was right and said it best:
I am a part of all that I have met;
Yet all experience is an arch wherethro'
Gleams that untravell'd world, whose margin fades
For ever and for ever when I move.
Yet all experience is an arch wherethro'
Gleams that untravell'd world, whose margin fades
For ever and for ever when I move.
And move I must, to a new margin, which will always gleam in my 
pilgrim's eyes.  So, cheers to the journey - thankfully, it never ends, 
it just turns another corner.
Reading List:
Give Me the World by Leila Hadley
Sex Slaves by Louise Brown
When Heaven & Earth Changed Places by Le Ly Hayslip
Foreign Devils on the Chinese Silk Road by Peter Hopkirk









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