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Sunday, May 26, 2013

Missives from Muscat - Introducing the city by the sea

I still have work to do, the quarter isn't over, but being here in Muscat, I feel like I am breathing again - for the first time since I started my program in September. I love living in new places, working to understand the cities, the streets, what places are considered important, how to stand in line (or not) at the coffee shop, what to order for breakfast.

I wasn't at all prepared for how beautiful this place is. Muscat is on the Indian Ocean, and the city has mountains that basically run along the coastline. Muscat began in a small valley, and has since expanded - geography permitting - in a long skinny line between the mountains and the ocean. The city is now approximately 50 km long, a series of valley enclaves connecting by a winding road along the sea. I love the mountains, and I love the sea - I am happiest when I am near both, which is part of why I fell for Los Angeles so hard...I can see how Muscat will easily and quickly become one of my favorite cities.


On Friday night, Judi, the program director, gave us a "starter kit" for our kitchens in our flats. Ours consisted of bread, sugar, creamer, and eggs...but on Saturday, we woke up and realized we had no coffee or tea in which to put the creamer and sugar, no oil with which to cook the eggs (or salt!), or a toaster or butter to sexy up the bread. Rather than choke down more food without flavor, after two days of airplane food, we went to try out a place across the street called Tea Corner. I got a Nescafe - instant coffee is the thing here, or else Turkish coffee (which is too strong even for me), and a raqaq b'il-labneh. It turned out to be basically a crepe, with labneh on it; the labneh I expected, and was part of why I ordered it. I had no clue what raqaq bread was, so I thought I'd give it a shot, figuring that at $1, I could always order something else if it turned out to be inedible. It was delicious. Then all of us packed into the bus with our driver Ma'foud, who drives better - and slower - when Judi is in the bus with us. When it's just the students, he takes the curves a bit quicker and is more aggressive with the merges.

Our orientation included some information about Oman that I mostly knew already, from reading Mandana Limbert's In the Time of Oil. It is interesting to be around non-anthros, for the first time in a while. The story of Oman's past 40 years is very different as presented by Limbert than was presented to our group. Sultan Qaboos came into power in the early 70s, and pushed for rapid modernization with oil wealth. So roads were built; water systems constructed on a Western style grid, instead of using wells and qanat, local irrigation systems; the country got on the electricity grid too. The Sultan opened colleges for women, and pushed mandatory education for women. This process was described as bringing Oman from "the medieval to the modern" in a mere 40 years.
As an anthropologist, of course, I must ask: what is modernization? What does that mean? In which contexts? What gets lost or erased with these changes, and how are they inhabited in people's everyday lives? If modernization is framed universally as positive progress, how does this frame the ways Omanis understand themselves, and how the West becomes situated as the paragon of progress/development? I have become habituated to being around brilliant people who think about these processes, and the ways that they can perform violence on communities, and I am profoundly thankful for them.

View on the way to the old city

It took us about 40 minutes to drive into the city of Muscat - I hadn't realized how far west our center was. The roadways are lined with are date palms and mango trees, heavy with ripe fruit. It is beautiful and green and lovely here, despite the heat and humidity.
We started by visiting the Sultan's palace, Qasr Al-A'lim - it's in the oldest part of the city, and expansive and beautiful. The back overlooks the Indian Ocean, which is so incredibly blue. Judi told us that when the Omani flag is flying over the main palace (see below), it means the Sultan is in residence, so maybe Qaboos saw us straggly sweaty group of Westerners on his lawn - the only people crazy enough to walk around in the mid-day heat.


 The Sultan's residence! It looks like 70s architecture because it is...
 This curved sword is called a khanjar - more on this later.
This it the view from the Sultan's backyard - not a bad gig if you can get it! It was 100 degrees and humid, and of course us girls were covered head to toe - I wanted nothing more than to jump in that water and cool off.
Note: the fort in the upper right here, and in the first picture in this post, are Portuguese-constructed. It is worth remembering that Oman, as controller of the Strait of Hormuz, has a lengthy history of trading with other countries on the Indian Ocean and as such, has historically dealt with both Persian invaders and Portuguese colonial mariners.

We then headed to the Bait Al-Zubair museum, which houses a lot of artifacts and traditional clothing and objects. The museum is divided into sections, so the visitor can look at the khanjars (the curved swords, on the Sultan's shield), women's clothing from As-Sharqiyah and Muscat, jewelry, men's clothing and head coverings (kummahs are the "informal" caps), versus the turbans (formal). The way a man's turban is tied denotes his tribal affiliation, as does the style of his dishdash (the long men's dress), so Omanis can read where someone is from by what he is wearing. Omanis also read location and social placement by their last names - women don't change their names when they get married, as family lineage is more important than your married name.




This is a replica of a traditional Omani fishing boat.
A bunch of white people take pictures in the garden.
Myself included. It's hard not to fall for this place! The whitewashed buildings with their distinctive flat roofs, and the notched towers, stand out so magnificently against the trees, flowers, ocean and sky.
 From there, we drove back along the water to the Muttra neighborhood.

The road from Al Qasr Al-A'lim, the Sultan's palace, back to Muttra winds along the coast, flanked by mountains to your left and the Indian Ocean to your left.
The Muttrah souq is beautiful, especially the old part, where the wooden ceilings are painted, like below.This souq wasn't nearly as big as those in Aleppo, Cairo, or Istanbul - at least, not the historic part. The newer tentacles of the Muttrah souq have spread out across the neighborhood in recent years.


There was lots of jewelry to tempt our jet-lagged tired eyes!
The shopkeeper joked about the nesting dolls, "It's an Arab family: father, mother, daughter, son & camel." Sure enough, the smallest nesting doll was a camel!
Oman is also well known for producing frankincense, which you may remember from Sunday School as one of the gifts the three wise men brought to celebrate Jesus' birth, along with myrrh (no idea where myrrh is from...). There was a lot of frankincense for sale, as well as other perfumes & scents.


On the road back to Seeb, the suburb where our Center and flats are, the heat and the jet lag put everyone to sleep...

Last night (after our nap), my flatmates and I went out in the Souq Al-Khoud neighborhood, where we live, to get dinner and buy some groceries. We most definitely gorged ourselves at the Turkish restaurant across the street, where we were brought enough hummus, pita, salad and kebabs to last us three days. I also got my beloved limon bi-na'na, which is fresh lemonade with mint in it. It's incredibly refreshing, and was my favorite treat in Syria.

We have of course made some mistakes, like at the grocery store when we just put the produce in the cart. When we got to the checkout, we discovered that we were meant to weigh it on the machine - in the produce section - and put the sticker with the price and weight on it for the checkout guy to scan. So we had to run back and sticker all our "capsicum" (peppers) and plums. But the Omanis I have interacted with so far have been very generous with my attempts to communicate with them, and laughed gently with us at our little gaffes. In all, it seems a very safe place to learn, because mistakes are not fatal and the environment is supportive.

Sunday morning, I woke up at 5am with the call to prayer - another thing I have missed and that I loved during my time in Syria. Perhaps it's my childhood experience, but I am so happy living in places that have vastly different traditions than my own - places that force me to learn things, to make mistakes, to take leaps to try to understand the people I share this world with. There is something so profoundly rewarding in making connections with others, who had different childhoods and speak languages I don't understand (or do so poorly). It is these experiences that give me hope for the future of our world.
A room of her own - the view from my room in Muscat

Sunday, May 19, 2013

Summer Fieldwork

It has been a while...what can I say? Graduate school is ...time-consuming, among other choice adjectives and adverbs.

I think it's fair to say that I've concluded the Gratitude Project. It was an incredible and powerful experience, and I have a lurking suspicion that I will return to it in the future. Being grateful is a good exercise!

For now, though, I close the Gratitude Project, and as the title of the blog suggests, move on to summer fieldwork. I'll be traveling to Oman, Jordan, and the UAE over the next two and a half months. I'll be studying Arabic, going on vacation with my boyfriend, and then starting to have conversations - and actually do the research - that I've been thinking about doing since early in my MA career (2008! FIVE years ago!). I hope you'll join me on this journey, too.

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Summer in Winter

Thursday, November 8, 2012 - Day II.147 (511)
 A night off! Or rather, a night with my fantastic cohort and Mr. Bond...



Friday, November 9, 2012 - Day II.148 (512)
Max Weber complicates the idea of 'calling' or beruf within the Protestant tradition and coupling it to an ideology of labor, morality and social cohesion...

...but I still think this is what I am meant to do.
And am, despite it all, so lucky to spend my days immersed in exploring and learning the world in its ravishing diversity.



Saturday, November 10, 2012 - Day II.149 (513)
My best friend started using Instagram, giving me access to pictures of the cutest boys in the world 24/7! So grateful for technology that helps me bear this separation from the people and place I love mildly more bearable.

Sunday, November 11, 2012- Day II.150 (514)
Today was bright and sunny, and 60 degrees! Perfect day for a run along the beach.


Monday, November 12, 2012 -Day II.151 (515)
Today my roommate revealed that I had a bottle of wine I didn't know about. I thought it was hers. Oh what small delights are mine!

Also, it snowed! How beautiful it is, from inside my warm house.

What could I possibly ask for for Christmas? Everything I cherish is already mine.

Thursday, November 8, 2012

Buds & Blossoms

Friday, October 19 - Day II.127 (491) to Monday, November 5, 2012 - Day 144 (508)
Sometimes the well runs dry. Sometimes you have to start over. Sometimes you can't bring yourself to acknowledge the truth about yourself: the truths that are ugly, that counter who you try to be, the ones you just keep wishing weren't true.

My mind is tremendously powerful, and I am trying to work myself out of the box I have mentally created.

I have to let go of so many things to get to the next place - so many habits that brought me successfully here will not allow me to evolve into what is coming next. So I have to let go, jump into a void, create space for mistakes, allow myself to mess up, risk looking foolish, and run (kicking and screaming, let's be honest) out of my comfort zone.


In the past weeks, I keep returning to three quotations, that, if we are to believe linguistic anthropologists and their belief that our choice of words and self-expression reveal deeper structures of personhood, identity, and self-construction, represent this self I am building into:

"All I have is a voice
To undo the folded lie,

...
There is no such thing as the State
And no one exists alone;
Hunger allows no choice
To the citizen or the police;
We must love one another or die."    - WH Auden

      This so much as we prepare to vote. So relevant - but also as I think about the kind of anthropologist - and thinker - I want to be and what I hope to contribute as my legacy to the way people understand the world.

And also:
"Hope is the thing with feathers
That perches in the soul
"  - Emily Dickinson
May there always be hope. May there always be hope.

And finally: 
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”    -Anais Nin

 Tuesday, November 6, 2012 - Day II.145 (509)
Congratulations to Barack Obama!



"What makes America exceptional are the bonds that hold together the most diverse nation on earth.
The belief that our destiny is shared; that this country only works when we accept certain obligations to one another and to future generations.  The freedom which so many Americans have fought for and died for come with responsibilities as well as rights.
And among those are love and charity and duty and patriotism.  That's what makes America great."
-Barack Obama, Acceptance Speech, 11.6.2012

I am happy - and so so so so relieved - to have my faith in this country reaffirmed, and this man as my president for the next four years. It is reassuring that when you stand up for values, that is worth something, still. 

Wednesday, November 7, 2012 - Day II.146 (510)
May you be blessed enough to have a best friend who acts as a mirror, holding you back up to yourself in clarity when you cannot see yourself.

Remember, no man is a failure who has friends.

You know who you are. Thank you. I love you.

Thursday, October 18, 2012

The 480s, and the meaning of life (while we're at it)

Monday, October 1 - Day II.109 (473) - Thursday, October 18 - Day II.126 (490)
So when your hope's on fire...don't hold a glass over the flame, don't let your heart grow cold, I will call your name, I will share your road.  - Mumford & Sons, Hopeless Wanderer 
 
Ok fine. This is cheating a little bit. But grad school is tough, so I get some concessions, right?

Grad school makes you focus on the important things. Tonight I am brought low in the face of them.

I have so many blessings: I have a great roommate, who helps me manage the rigors of this program and its demands; I have a great apartment that is a beautiful space to live in; I have my health. I get to bike to school most days along Lake Michigan, and I get to watch this great body of water, so big she has waves!, I get to watch her change colors and seasons and know her movements, great & small. I get to watch the trees turn colors as the seasons change, and the leaves fall, and I reminded how fantastic seasons are: they teach us, as Parker Palmer reminds us, to appreciate the circumstance we are in.

My mother had two children because she wanted us to have each other after she and my father were gone. Every day I am grateful for my sister, already. To know someone in your soul, what this means....I think many people go through life without this kind of connection to another person.

I am thankful for Search, all those years ago, a retreat put on by the Jesuits at SU, because that experience created the most caring friendships I have. My life is definitely a search, a quest. But it would be nothing without the companion that Search gave me - my friendship with Berna has been sustaining, deep, and powerful - in ways I anticipated, and in ways I did not foresee. It is trite to say I am grateful for this amazing and our ever-growing friendship, but I am not sure how to convey this sentiment any more honestly than that. Our lives are vastly different, and take us in different directions, but the wisdom, love and validation that she offers me are unceasing. I can only aspire to reflect that back to her, to earn that honor.

I am so thankful for Rob. At my dear friend Shane's wedding, the officiant noted that when you find your other, it takes courage to recognize that, to see it, to own it, to grow into that relationship, to be seen for who you are and acknowledged and loved for that. She was right. It does take courage, and ownership...but there is nothing more meaningful or worthy in life. How lucky am I, to find a man who sees me in my entirety and loves me anyway, who shares the same joy and delight at life's eccentricities, whose kindness and generosity know no bounds? This love is absolutely life's highest calling, and greatest blessing and I cherish it every moment.



to have & to hold, a lover of the light

There are not words enough for this gratitude - it overwhelms me, renders me (even me!) speechless and tearful in the face of it.

I cannot be me without you.

I wish for you every blessing, every deep love, every good thing that this earth and its people can offer to one another.



 

Wednesday, October 17, 2012

What it means to start school again at 30

 Sunday, Sept 23 - Day II.101 (465)
Safe travels from NM, albeit delayed, to CO.

Monday, Sept 24 - Day II.102 (466) 
I'm thankful for all the help I got with my multiple car problems. 


Tuesday, Sept 25 - Day II.103 (467)
Safe travels from Omaha to Chicago. Home, again, kind of.

Wednesday, Sept 26 - Day II.104 (468)
Today I had lunch with my advisor. I know that I am lucky to work with a woman who already has tenure and multiple books out, and who is responsive and positive and completely has my back. I am very lucky, honored to work with her, and completely determined to make her proud of me.

 Thursday, Sept 27 - Day II.105 (469) 
Today was my first day of class again. I felt so childlike, in some respects.

Also, am grateful to my stellar boyfriend for all my school supplies (see above). 

Friday, Sept 28 - Day II.106 (470)
Sometimes you just need a night at home. It's been so hectic - I am grateful for the breather, before things get even more hectic.

Saturday, Sept 29 - Day II.107 (471)
I really do love the Rogers Park Fruit Market. Gotta love a place where you can get Vietnamese hot sauce, taro, feta and fresh thyme. I also went to Dominick's for the first time today. I think I like it better than Ralph's in LA...


Sunday, September 30 - Day II.108 (472)

If I'm honest, I didn't get the break I needed to be able to process how huge this shift in my life is; my transition was altogether too chaotic, terrible and all-around tardy to allow any space for that kind of reflecting. I don't feel at home here and this city just feels weird to me. There is something on edge about it in a way that I find disconcerting. I realized that I hadn't even talked about how this feels like my fake life - like I'm going to go back to USC, and to LA and my beloved community there - at some point. But this is my real life, despite what it feels like, and this is my real career, and everything matters about 1500 times more than it ever has before.

Now I'm grappling with the effects of a stressful move, while trying to gain ground and establish myself in my true profession. I'll get there. Tonight was the first night that I felt like I was owning myself, owning this decision, fitting into the capacious shoes set in front of me.  Let's be honest, this program is incredibly rigorous and cuts across subfields, so I'll be required to be proficient in biological anthropology and archaeology, both of which I have no background in & I'm diving in at the 401 level. I want, I need, to be successful at this.

So thank you, Micaela, for that.



Monday, September 24, 2012

Love, Actually

Tuesday, September 18 - Day II.95 (460) 
Today I arrived safely to my grandmother's place in Los Alamos. This place is holy to me. It is the only place I feel is something akin to "home." This is truly tierra sagrada, and I am so grateful for every moment here.

My grandmother's handmade stained glass windows
Wednesday, September 19 - Day II.97 (461)
Today I had to shell out a lot of money to make my car safe. But at least my car is safe.

Thursday, September 20 - Day II.98 (462)


Nothing quite like a New Mexico hike - we did the Red Dot Trail down from the mesa to the Rio Grande. And yes, we jumped into the pool when we finished.


Friday, September 21 - Day II.99 (463)Bandelier. I love this place, in all its seasons, in all its permutations.

Enter the kiva!


Climbing to Alcove House

View of Frijolito Canyon

Reward for a long hike
Saturday, September 22 - Day II.100 (464)
I believe in love.

Congratulations to Shane & Jesse!





Hacienda Dona Andrea by night

Congratulations to my dear friends on their wedding day. I am tremendously honored and excited to be here with them on this special day, and to celebrate love. May we all have the joy, privilege and right to marry our person.